How the Process Works
Create Your Profile
Your 7-step onboarding goes beyond photos and bio. You share your relationship goals, core values, lifestyle habits, and emotional readiness — the things that actually determine compatibility.
What this covers
- Verified identity and photo review
- Relationship goals and deal-breakers
- Lifestyle, values, and personality depth
- Emotional readiness self-assessment
Our Algorithm Scores Compatibility
Every potential match is scored across nine weighted dimensions before you ever see their profile. Hard deal-breakers are filtered out automatically — so you only see people who can actually work.
What this covers
- Relationship Goals — 30%
- Partner Values — 25%
- Lifestyle Compatibility — 20%
- Preferences & Priorities — 15%
- Emotional Readiness — 10%
Receive Curated Matches
Standard members browse the discovery feed. Connect members unlock full profiles, messaging, and the full 9-dimension compatibility radar. VIP members receive named matchmaker curation and curated weekly introductions.
What this covers
- Standard: Browse the discovery feed
- Connect: Full profiles + 9D radar + messaging
- VIP: Named matchmaker + curated weekly 3
Connect with Intention
When you match, a private communication window opens. Exchange messages, share your number when you're ready, and move forward at a pace that feels right — with real accountability built in.
What this covers
- Private encrypted messaging bubbles
- Mutual opt-in number exchange
- Match acceptance and response tracking
- Reconsideration and standby queue
